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Theo J Ellis

Theo J Ellis
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The personal development industry is full of sugar-coated so called "gurus" and sometimes - misleading advice. I started Just Be Real to cut through the BS and share my straightforward views on self confidence and personal growth.
Nobody Gives A Fuck About Your Mediocre Life

Nobody Gives A Fuck About Your Mediocre Life

"Don't attract too much attention, and lay low. You don't want to be doing too well."These are the words of an old woman I...
The Creepiest Thing Society Accepts As A Cultural Norm

The Creepiest Thing Society Accepts As A Cultural Norm

There’s nothing more tolerated in our society than mediocrity itself. Imagine walking down the street and shouting;I want to get rich. I want to...
6 Of The Most Genuine 50 Cent Quotes That Will Give You Courage

6 Of The Most Genuine 50 Cent Quotes That Will Give You Courage

50 Cent is one of the realest entrepreneurs in the world of business.And not just in business, but as an individual.With the way the...
7 Mediocre Things Only A Mediocre Person Will Tell You

7 Mediocre Things Only A Mediocre Person Will Tell You

Some words are like Tomatoes or Red Onions.The more you use them, the healthier your mindset becomes.On the other hand – some words are...
What Influences Self Esteem? Here Are 7 Legitimate Answers

What Influences Self Esteem? Here Are 7 Legitimate Answers

I was bullied and I never told anybody about it.Yep. I kept it to myself as if it was a best kept secret. It...
Why You Should Always Be Yourself, Even If It Pisses People Off

Why You Should Always Be Yourself, Even If It Pisses People Off

Back when I started Just Be Real, I wrote this post:Jobcentre Plus Is UselessIt's now a top post on this blog.And I've had people...
3 Reasons Why People Feel Joy When They See You Fail

3 Reasons Why People Feel Joy When They See You Fail

I'd raise my hand in school to answer a question, and everybody would laugh at my wrong answer. As If I was stupid or...
Guaranteed Ways To Keep Believing In Yourself, Even If It Seems Impossible

5 Guaranteed Ways To Keep Believing In Yourself, Even If It Seems Impossible

"Impossible is just a big word thrown around by small men who find it easier to live in the world they've been given, than...
What Creates Self Worth? Here Are 6 Answers That Will Feed Your Curiosity

What Creates Self Worth? Here Are 6 Answers That Will Feed Your Curiosity

"Never say anything about yourself you do not want to come true." - Brian Tracy Self worth is like gladiator armor. It protects you from...
3 Unconventional Tips That Will Boost Your Self Confidence

3 Unconventional Tips That Will Boost Your Self Confidence

You know how it feels when you want to throw up, right?Your stomach feels weird. You feel disgusting. And the experience is nothing short...
17 Examples That Prove Faking It Till You Make It Actually Works

17 Examples That Prove Faking It Till You Make It Actually Works

If you fake it till you make it, does that mean you're a faker? If so, then we're ALL fakers. Because we all do...
This Is Why People Judge You By Your Appearance

This Is Why People Judge You By Your Appearance, Instead Of Your Personality

The woman in the picture above is delicious eye candy for me. She's got a banging body. The whole package is just right for...
4 Surprising Things That Are Not Important In Life

4 Surprising Things That Are Not Important In Life

You're on your deathbed. You have 30 minutes to live.If this were true, how would you spend the last 30 minutes of your life?...
4 Types Of People You Should Absolutely Avoid

4 Types Of People You Should Absolutely Avoid

Some people would piss on your grave if they could. And stab you in the back with a 10 inch blade if they could...
4 Things You Want People To Care About (But They Actually Don't)

4 Things You Want People To Care About (But They Actually Don’t)

I needed a way to start this off. So I went over to the Manchester evening news site and noticed this headline:Money laundering conman who tricked...
7 Genuine Reasons Why People Are Driven To Tell Lies

7 Genuine Reasons Why People Are Driven To Tell Lies

There are three types of lies. Lies, damn lies and statistics. - UnknownI have an embarrassing memory of something I did when I was...
When You Gain The Confidence To Stand Up For Yourself

When You Gain The Confidence To Stand Up For Yourself

Bullying affects 1.5 million people in the UK. Or at least it did throughout 2016.I remember being in high school when I dealt with...
What Is The Goal Of A Bully 7 Things You Should Know

What Is The Goal Of A Bully? 7 Things You Should Know

"Hatred should never be used to fight hatred. Never!" - Siam, Canaan AnimeWhen you feel like a piece of dog shit being scraped off...