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Theo J Ellis

Theo J Ellis
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After giving birth to Just Be Real, I've made it my mission to share life lessons and document my experiences along the way. Not to mention inspire others to do the things they believe in without fear of criticism. I'm driven to help people build the self confidence they deserve.
What Influences Self Esteem? Here Are 7 Legitimate Answers

What Influences Self Esteem? Here Are 7 Legitimate Answers

I was bullied and I never told anybody about it. Yep. I kept it to myself as if it was a best kept secret. It...
Why You Should Always Be Yourself, Even If It Pisses People Off

Why You Should Always Be Yourself, Even If It Pisses People Off

Back when I started Just Be Real, I wrote this post: Jobcentre Plus Is Useless It's now a top post on this blog. And I've had people...
3 Reasons Why People Feel Joy When They See You Fail

3 Reasons Why People Feel Joy When They See You Fail

I'd raise my hand in school to answer a question, and everybody would laugh at my wrong answer. As If I was stupid or...
Guaranteed Ways To Keep Believing In Yourself, Even If It Seems Impossible

5 Guaranteed Ways To Keep Believing In Yourself, Even If It Seems Impossible

"Impossible is just a big word thrown around by small men who find it easier to live in the world they've been given, than...
What Creates Self Worth? Here Are 6 Answers That Will Feed Your Curiosity

What Creates Self Worth? Here Are 6 Answers That Will Feed Your Curiosity

"Never say anything about yourself you do not want to come true." - Brian Tracy Self worth is like gladiator armor. It protects you from...
3 Unconventional Tips That Will Boost Your Self Confidence

3 Unconventional Tips That Will Boost Your Self Confidence

You know how it feels when you want to throw up, right? Your stomach feels weird. You feel disgusting. And the experience is nothing short...
17 Examples That Prove Faking It Till You Make It Actually Works

17 Examples That Prove Faking It Till You Make It Actually Works

If you fake it till you make it, does that mean you're a faker? If so, then we're ALL fakers. Because we all do...
This Is Why People Judge You By Your Appearance

This Is Why People Judge You By Your Appearance, Instead Of Your Personality

The woman in the picture above is delicious eye candy for me. She's got a banging body. The whole package is just right for...
4 Surprising Things That Are Not Important In Life

4 Surprising Things That Are Not Important In Life

You're on your deathbed. You have 30 minutes to live. If this were true, how would you spend the last 30 minutes of your life?...
4 Types Of People You Should Absolutely Avoid

4 Types Of People You Should Absolutely Avoid

Some people would piss on your grave if they could. And stab you in the back with a 10 inch blade if they could...
4 Things You Want People To Care About (But They Actually Don't)

4 Things You Want People To Care About (But They Actually Don’t)

I needed a way to start this off. So I went over to the Manchester evening news site and noticed this headline: Money laundering conman who tricked...
7 Genuine Reasons Why People Are Driven To Tell Lies

7 Genuine Reasons Why People Are Driven To Tell Lies

There are three types of lies. Lies, damn lies and statistics. - Unknown I have an embarrassing memory of something I did when I was...
When You Gain The Confidence To Stand Up For Yourself

When You Gain The Confidence To Stand Up For Yourself

Bullying affects 1.5 million people in the UK. Or at least it did throughout 2016. I remember being in high school when I dealt with...
What Is The Goal Of A Bully 7 Things You Should Know

What Is The Goal Of A Bully? 7 Things You Should Know

"Hatred should never be used to fight hatred. Never!" - Siam, Canaan Anime When you feel like a piece of dog shit being scraped off...
7 Legit Mantras To Live By That Are Seriously Helpful

7 Legit Mantras To Live By That Are Seriously Helpful

Follow your passion. Be yourself. You can do anything! Have an attitude of gratitude. Think positive. You've no doubt had these mantras shoved so far down your throat, that...
What's your favorite way to learn online?

What’s your favorite way to learn online? (Poll)

Some of us love to learn through YouTube videos, and that's fine. While others love blogs, books or audio books. Share your opinions on what...
Being Made Redundant: What It Feels Like To Lose Your Job

Being Made Redundant: What It Feels Like To Be Jobless

I was foolish to NOT have seen it coming. It all ended with the supervisor screaming and shouting in my face, as if he...
Self Esteem And Knowledge: 3Reasons To Never Stop Learning

Self Esteem And Knowledge: 3 Reasons To Never Stop Learning

Unlike beauty, learning has no limits. With beauty there's only so far you can go with how physically attractive you are. And how well put...